Losing a loved one: The first week

A guide to what you may experience as this difficult time unfolds.

 
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We're here to support you on this difficult journey

There will be a number of things to organise after losing a loved one. You may have to speak with many people and provide a lot of information. Remember that we are here to support you through this process.

Things to think about in the first week

People that may contact you

It is normal to feel overwhelmed by the many people that may contact you. If you need, you may like to ask a friend or family member to be with you throughout these conversations.

The following people may contact you. To assist, here is an explanation of each role so you can understand why each contact is important.

Organising a funeral

One of the first things that needs to be organised is the funeral. It can feel overwhelming to prepare for a ceremony that best represents your loved one. You may also worry about the cost.

Choosing a funeral director

It is up to you and your family to decide which funeral director to use. You may know of a reputable company from a friend or relative or you can search on the internet of local funeral directors.

The funeral director may ask for a deposit before the funeral, with the balance to be paid on an agreed date. Make sure you check these terms and conditions before you commit to them.

There are several websites that give you information about planning a funeral. The funeral director will also give you options about the funeral. This includes the service, music, flowers, and considerations for the eulogy.

Costs of the burial or cremation

If eligible, the reasonable costs of your loved one’s burial or cremation, up to a maximum amount, will be paid by the WorkSafe agent. Speak with your agent to discuss your eligibility and how to apply for this payment.

If you’re not eligible

If you’re not eligible and are concerned about your ability to pay for expenses, you can explore the following options:

  • Your loved one may have provided for funeral costs in their will.
  • Centrelink may provide a bereavement benefit to eligible person(s).
  • Returned service personnel may be entitled to an official war grave through the Department of Veterans’ Affairs
  • Some health funds provide a funeral benefit.
  • Your loved one may have been a member of a trade union or other club or association which may provide a funeral benefit.

Centrelink bereavement line: 132 300

Commonwealth Department of Veterans’ Affairs: 1800 555 254

We understand that this is an emotional time for you and your family

To help support you, we've created a checklist of people and organisations you may need to contact in the first days and weeks.

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Taking care of yourself

When navigating difficult times, often looking after yourself can be put to one side. It is important to give yourself the time and space to get through each day by allowing yourself time to breathe and letting family members support you.

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